As a teenager and young twenty something, I quickly learned how society weaponizes sex against women. If you enjoy sex, you're a slut... don't like sex and you're a prude. There was no winning either way.
In my early twenties I was the victim of voyeurism / video voyeurism by a group of young "men" that wanted nothing more than to break me (and other women like me). Problem for these boys was that I was at my strongest, my most confident best, a place where i had complete control and I REFUSED to let them scare or destroy me. Once i stuck up for myself their torment, harassment, and bullying ended immediately.
I learned early that if you're a woman, little men will try to weaponize your sexuality against you. I learned as a confidant woman though, that you don't have to let small minded boys with mommy issues drag you down.
"D.T.F." is my ode to the ladies out there that know what they want and how they want it... no apologies.